Wednesday, April 27, 2005
Can I get to know u?
i was asked dat by a short, gi joed guy...
while i was walking along a path near the mrt station..its dark but its not deserted.. at first i tot it was nothing when the guy besides me walked at the same pace as me..suddenly he turned to me in the dark and say 'excuse me'
i was hurrying home and tired ....i was not used to this kind of thing so i just said 'yes?' curtly.. and he contd 'can i get to know u?' then i said 'No!' in a curt tone again then he was like 'huh? no?' ..apa sia...he thought wat he brad pitt lookalike ah..anyway if he is i still would say no hor..coz my husband the best!!
:p
Monday, April 25, 2005
Fits
couple of things happen ..
went threading w joon, neng and erda on wed 20 apr...erda being the 'tour guide'..went to orchard towers to get threaded. its not that painful but yes i tear because i had to close my eyes for 5 mins..but was very happy w the result..v clean and shape is nice..till now not even a hair has grown..and its only 5 bucks..
on fri 22 apr.. i was shocked out of my sleep..as usually when hubby was getting ready for work i would be half awake on my bed..when he's leaving for work ard 7am i would be dozing back to work..but not dat day..i was awaken by my sis shouting hysterically! translated "Mother mother!!! erfie's (my second nephew) having fits!!!"
i was immediately off my bed .. my mother father was also awake..my sister was crying hysterically ..my bro-in-law was also there..
They would send erfie every morning before work .. erfie had fits in the car as soon as they arrived at the carpark..my sister ran all the way up screaming..
i watched from my room (i was scared..i saw my first newphew erfan had fits before so i was not willing to relive the moment), my father was trying to pry open erfie's jaw with a metal spoon..we dun have the ice cream stick-like thingy...my sister hurriedly called mama heidi who was a healer and also a decade long family fren who is good in these things..lucky she haven't left home for body massages..yes she started that early to go people's house and do body massages...
after that i went to my room and called my good friend mimi..everytime when i feel v sad and scared she would be the first one who i think of because i knw she would make me feel better :).. i told her abt and cried coz ilove the boys v v v much and to think such things to happen to them is so heartbreaking..;(
it was quiet outside..after a while i heard erfie cried...i went to take a peek..my bro in law is carrying him.. i went to see him and try to make him laugh..but i think he's too tired and sick ..he look sosick the poor boy :( my sis said he wasnt sleeping well the day before and was having a fever too..i think they weren't as careful as the first one, the elder one has fits twice ..we all thought mebe the second one erfie is stronger (well his fatter heeh and he loves his medicine ) so mebe well it won't struck twice but we were wrong..at first after the fits has gone my sis said he was quiet after a while like in a daze but when she called out to him then he cried ...thank god..its better for them to make some sound after the fits had passed..and he also vomitted a lot after dat which is another good sign..
mama heidi arrived and erfie was treating to a body massage w cooking oil and small onions heh..poor little boy..he was crying all the while and by the end of it shivering w cold..he was dressed and lulled to sleep by sis..his eyes were purplish and puffy too..poor nephew and he also got measles ..whole body ...:( i took urgent leave on dat day to accompany my sis..
now i think twice abt having children..i wouldn't knw how i'll cope if my child has fits..i think i will faint :( i saw w my own eyes my nephew erfan when he started to have fits..i saw it first when he's only a year old..his eyes turn back in his eyes sockets and his mouth turn black and his face turns blue and his hands became stiff and straight..masyallah..its terrible and the second time he froth at his mouth !...
he's just a baby dat time....and now his bro got it as well...:`(....